Up until now, the person’s you’ve been “being” doesn’t have the outcome you want

So you have to look at—who do you need to BE to create a different outcome?

• What do you need to think each day to reach your goal?
• What words do you need to say to yourself each day to reach your goal?
• What actions do you need to take each day to reach your goal?
• How do you need to “be” in your energy? (e.g., in a positive mood or a negative mood? In victim mindset or resourceful? Blaming or taking responsibility?)

In As a Man Thinketh, James Allen wrote:

“A man is literally what he thinks, his character being the complete sum of all his thoughts. A person is limited only by the thoughts that he chooses. A man only begins to be a man when he ceases to whine and revile, and commences to search for the hidden justice which regulates his life.”

In order to reach a goal you’ve never reached before, you’re going to have to think different thoughts, say different words, take different actions, and show up differently every day. You’re going to have to change your habits and who you’re “being.”

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Many people walking around feeling victimized by their own life and their own choices. They’re literally being “victims.” They’re putting responsibility for how they feel onto someone or something else